Thanks for all of your posts and comments! The idea is to make sure you are setting time whether it be a date night or date lunch etc. for your spouse. Make Him or Her the Priority of your time- it's says everything!
-In my recent time with the Lord I was studying Psalm 46:10 " Be still and know that I am God;" It occurred to me that I must be still in order to REALLY know God. A quick quiet time here and a quick bible reading there is great don't get me wrong; but it's when I am still and in the presence of the Lord that I feel and create the most intimacy with Him. When I am still and Intimate with the Lord, I am reminded of the real Priorities in my life. I have to learn to say "No" to the "Busies" because my spouse means more. I have to Be Still and by knowing who God is I know what his desire is for me as a wife and that is to choose my husband first- to love him as Christ loves him. Can you commit a time once a week to Be Still with your spouse....?